在茫茫人海中,没有人是谁的唯一。只有让你心甘情愿,全心付出的人。没有上天的安排。因为如果是如此,那上天撮合了无数的情侣。也拆散了多少的鸳鸯。
一个陌生人跟另一个陌生人能相遇,也并非是注定。只是时机的出现,种种条件的存在。
执着着等待和不舍放弃,因为注定的抱负,失去可能的幸福。
如果两人在看到彼此的条件,决定在一起,那就该勇敢。没有挫折的爱情,无法让彼此成长。遇到挫折,经不起考验,必定伤害彼此。
如果爱情到了劲头,也不是世界末日。只是某些让彼此在一起的条件不在了,也没好没坏。没好的因为分手一定带来不舍。没坏的因为彼此以成长了,下一站一定跟幸福更接近。
Saturday, November 27, 2010
Monday, November 22, 2010
Gone with the wind...
Love is something very abstract yet everyone's desire. The more you try to grasp, the more it distant itself. And when you thought you have won at last, yet it is still not really yours. A gust of wind, everything just vanish.
Yet to the one that throds the path, they never regret. A journey that leads to self discovery, a journey that teaches how to let go.
Passion is something really fragile and so unsustainable. Just when you are thinking of how much reason to love someone, next moment you might have been thinking of how much reason to prove that he is not the one. And it makes no difference whether any reason is found in the end.
Maybe a failed episode leads to a better stage next round, but how tired it is to be in and out again.
Not knowing what went wrong, makes the pain more enduring. And letting go might just be the only way to preserve what that is only yours, self-respect for oneself and her.
Yet to the one that throds the path, they never regret. A journey that leads to self discovery, a journey that teaches how to let go.
Passion is something really fragile and so unsustainable. Just when you are thinking of how much reason to love someone, next moment you might have been thinking of how much reason to prove that he is not the one. And it makes no difference whether any reason is found in the end.
Maybe a failed episode leads to a better stage next round, but how tired it is to be in and out again.
Not knowing what went wrong, makes the pain more enduring. And letting go might just be the only way to preserve what that is only yours, self-respect for oneself and her.
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