Shiok shiok! So great I could seat in the meeting when heng heng both my class rep and assistant could no attend!! hahaha....Free dinner and most importantly priceless lesson.
The meeting was an eye opening for me to see how ven. Miao Yang handles different situation and different people. It feels like an art or I would say like a piece of martial art steps. Too relax on the participants will cause the meeting to be slow and fruitless. People will treat it as second important. Too much strength would cause pple to drag attending. Jus by talking to the same person, she uses different tonality, words and expression. Most importantly after the drilling session, the reprimanded person still chat with ven. Miao Yang with a smile. No trace of ill feeling!!
Most remarkable part is how to use buddhist teaching throughout the discussion and decision making. Some how I believe she purposely displayed the scenes to make the rest learn specifically Buddhism. We have all chaired meeting and discussion before but how many a time we chaired it with proper intent and the turnout is fruitful with minimal time wastage.
I have always thought that it is futile to assert strength and power in a discussion but now I find that applying jus right amount of power makes the discussion function properly. Looking forward to another session...muhahaahah!!
Tuesday, December 30, 2008
Saturday, December 27, 2008
Youthz gathering 08' @ FGS
Finally another event over.....very physically draining but very fulfilling.
I have never thought of a 民歌餐厅 concept inside a temple. Very causal yet entertaining. Very talented and refreshing performance by the youth group. Comparing to myself at their age, I think my achievements are never near. The do up the own songs and their own dance and many many more!!
We also enjoyed ourselves with singing our "very frequently sing" pieces. All's well except we are told we need more voice projections. Something the abbot have said which rings in my heart as well. A temple is a ground for us youths to practice and unfold our potentials. All the experiences and resources are taken care off and we jus do our best to grow ourselves.
As compare to my life plus the normal young man on the streets against pple that actively involves in the temple...... i find that
they grow faster, more matured yet full of vitality and drive. 
I have derived that its not about making big impact/reforms to society or to their religion but its about creating impact in thyself and making a difference to pple around them.
More pics @ my facebook!!
Saturday, December 20, 2008
Singapore!!
Today on sociology...
Our lecturer made us write down what we think is unique in Singapore and here is my list!! Hahahaa!
1) ERP!!
2) Mas Salamat!!
3) Singlish
4) PAP and of course my dearest PAP Kindergarten I am from!
5) Fines
6) Useless speaker corner
7) Complain but never action
8) "Chop" seats using tissue paper
9) Kiasu
10) Exam exam exam
and the list goes on and on......
After the exercise I found that although I am not pro-govt but I do feel that we are what we are becos of them! Pple are saying...Singapore has no history of its own....but i would say history is created every moment.
I could recall instances when I was overseas and in a distance heard "u know hor"....hahaha I suddenly feel very excited and I know a fellow singaporean is nearby.
Pple has been saying that politics in Singapore is too rigid and should follow how other countries work.... But I doubt things tat work overseas could work in Singapore. We are jus too use to how things worked in here.
Our lecturer made us write down what we think is unique in Singapore and here is my list!! Hahahaa!
1) ERP!!
2) Mas Salamat!!
3) Singlish
4) PAP and of course my dearest PAP Kindergarten I am from!
5) Fines
6) Useless speaker corner
7) Complain but never action
8) "Chop" seats using tissue paper
9) Kiasu
10) Exam exam exam
and the list goes on and on......
After the exercise I found that although I am not pro-govt but I do feel that we are what we are becos of them! Pple are saying...Singapore has no history of its own....but i would say history is created every moment.
I could recall instances when I was overseas and in a distance heard "u know hor"....hahaha I suddenly feel very excited and I know a fellow singaporean is nearby.
Pple has been saying that politics in Singapore is too rigid and should follow how other countries work.... But I doubt things tat work overseas could work in Singapore. We are jus too use to how things worked in here.
Saturday, December 13, 2008
Disturbing repetitive questions!!
Another questions posted by some caring friends of mine saying why no galfriend? Do you intend to be single? Even I can sense some fear from my mum......although she don't says it.
But again, I'm just not supportive for marrying b'cos its right to be married. It comes back to the question, what binds a couple together. I've seen pple suffering in their marriage just b'cos they married too early, nvr noe their partner was this way, no freedom, love has faded........bla bla bla.
I was jus wondering is this suppose to happen. Of course nothing is constant in this world and nothing is for guaranteed. But is it possible if the union of two indiv is due to faith? Its not religious faith. Its the faith that we are already one and we are the support for each other no matter what happens. You accept the partner as your other half physically and emotionally.
Of cos tats attachment and creates suffering. But a share of worries delivers a fair shair of happiness. At least when you are lost and there's not one you can trust, you can trust him. B'cos you believe that the faith means he would do everything with you in mind first. And when you are tired by all the things you face. There is always someone that is willing to leave aside everything and be the pillar of strength. And is also a pair of eye that helps you open another world and new knowledge that you are unable to see.
To me, love is just like a journey. Just like u are climbing a mt to see the lovely sunset. If jus happens that you are too late for the view, then jus too bad. I believe in life things jus happen every moment. The things thats causing suffering is not a failed relationship but its not having the ability to let go if there's a need to!
But again, I'm just not supportive for marrying b'cos its right to be married. It comes back to the question, what binds a couple together. I've seen pple suffering in their marriage just b'cos they married too early, nvr noe their partner was this way, no freedom, love has faded........bla bla bla.
I was jus wondering is this suppose to happen. Of course nothing is constant in this world and nothing is for guaranteed. But is it possible if the union of two indiv is due to faith? Its not religious faith. Its the faith that we are already one and we are the support for each other no matter what happens. You accept the partner as your other half physically and emotionally.
Of cos tats attachment and creates suffering. But a share of worries delivers a fair shair of happiness. At least when you are lost and there's not one you can trust, you can trust him. B'cos you believe that the faith means he would do everything with you in mind first. And when you are tired by all the things you face. There is always someone that is willing to leave aside everything and be the pillar of strength. And is also a pair of eye that helps you open another world and new knowledge that you are unable to see.
To me, love is just like a journey. Just like u are climbing a mt to see the lovely sunset. If jus happens that you are too late for the view, then jus too bad. I believe in life things jus happen every moment. The things thats causing suffering is not a failed relationship but its not having the ability to let go if there's a need to!
Monday, December 8, 2008
BOLT!
Had a rather nice dinner with my Mt climbing folks at Bugis. Nice food nice people to be with. After our delicious dinner proceed to Dhoby Guat nearby for some delicious Beany delights and carried on with "Keng Gai" and ghost stories contribute by WeiXing. Haha.
After the makan passed by Cathy and decidied to catch BOLT! Hahhaa few grown ups bought some super front seats to catch cartoon ...... muahhaha. But quite nice and definitely a good way to unwind our long over-stressed mind.
The show is about a dog called Bolt which was fooled to believe that his world is real but actually otherwise. Throughout the journey to "rescue" his owner, he experienced how a normal dog should behave rather than the made title of super-dog. The show had quite good graphics and interesting perspective to look at.
The story line reminded me sometimes we had given ourselves undue stress and often work very hard to be our love ones "Super Hero". Bolt who was fooled to believe he has super powers did his best to protect his owner but through the journey found that actually his super powers were fake. But realising the truth and abandoning his old belief, he gained friendship and support. I believe that we are accepted for what we are. Just be ourselves and be what we are most comfortable with, we are less stressed, relaxed and definately able to peform our various roles well.
True friends accepts who we are and sometimes let us face reality. Their words maybe harsh and sometimes not understanding. But in fact they are those that really knows us, our strength and weakness and embraces our differences.
Another thing I found rather interesting is about setting goals. Sometimes we are very motivated to aspired by some achievers to strive hard for our goals. But still, success is not very lasting if we are not logical and pragmatic. Its always good to be motivated. But not everyone is as capable in similar ways and success comes in different form. We should always keep our goals in check yet keep a rationale mind to see our ways. Be realistic.
Our life journey is not our much we have achieved but how we have enjoyed our journey. Often, sense of fulfilment is not on reaching our goals but the experience we had and the friends we have met along the way.
To me, I am not what I am now without those person I have aquainted along the journey. There is always alot to learn from and always fills my life with happiness and rather touching moments. Of course I am still pursuing my goals and know that I am far from perfecting but I am happy with what I have currently.
After the makan passed by Cathy and decidied to catch BOLT! Hahhaa few grown ups bought some super front seats to catch cartoon ...... muahhaha. But quite nice and definitely a good way to unwind our long over-stressed mind.
The show is about a dog called Bolt which was fooled to believe that his world is real but actually otherwise. Throughout the journey to "rescue" his owner, he experienced how a normal dog should behave rather than the made title of super-dog. The show had quite good graphics and interesting perspective to look at.
The story line reminded me sometimes we had given ourselves undue stress and often work very hard to be our love ones "Super Hero". Bolt who was fooled to believe he has super powers did his best to protect his owner but through the journey found that actually his super powers were fake. But realising the truth and abandoning his old belief, he gained friendship and support. I believe that we are accepted for what we are. Just be ourselves and be what we are most comfortable with, we are less stressed, relaxed and definately able to peform our various roles well.
True friends accepts who we are and sometimes let us face reality. Their words maybe harsh and sometimes not understanding. But in fact they are those that really knows us, our strength and weakness and embraces our differences.
Another thing I found rather interesting is about setting goals. Sometimes we are very motivated to aspired by some achievers to strive hard for our goals. But still, success is not very lasting if we are not logical and pragmatic. Its always good to be motivated. But not everyone is as capable in similar ways and success comes in different form. We should always keep our goals in check yet keep a rationale mind to see our ways. Be realistic.
Our life journey is not our much we have achieved but how we have enjoyed our journey. Often, sense of fulfilment is not on reaching our goals but the experience we had and the friends we have met along the way.
To me, I am not what I am now without those person I have aquainted along the journey. There is always alot to learn from and always fills my life with happiness and rather touching moments. Of course I am still pursuing my goals and know that I am far from perfecting but I am happy with what I have currently.
Wednesday, December 3, 2008
Diarrhoea
Down with stupid diarrhoea. Since monday morning woke up with a crazy intense headache....then diarrhoea till now. But still manage to attend COY's buffet lunch on Monday!! Not a very authentic indonesian cruisine but still feels nice having the FULL feeling hahaha. But there goes my gain weight opportunity.....all down the toilet bowl liao
Maybe b'cos of my bloodline....i quite particular about Indonesian food!! hahaha especially Otah!! Can try rice table Otah......very nice ......but not their others.......the indonesian restaurant at Clarke Quay very authentic....but not much selection on its menu. Cheap too!
Anyone got good recommendation must let me noez hor!!.......seems like I was born to eat and eat....have tried marathon buffet for days but no use......Jus wonder where does all the food i eat went to. Juz got a check up ....i always know i have high metabolic rate but !!....its comparative to a 16 yr old boy......am i still in puberty??
Isn't there any formula to slow it down......no wonder i gets distracted easily and nvr seat still for a moment.....haiz......
Maybe b'cos of my bloodline....i quite particular about Indonesian food!! hahaha especially Otah!! Can try rice table Otah......very nice ......but not their others.......the indonesian restaurant at Clarke Quay very authentic....but not much selection on its menu. Cheap too!
Anyone got good recommendation must let me noez hor!!.......seems like I was born to eat and eat....have tried marathon buffet for days but no use......Jus wonder where does all the food i eat went to. Juz got a check up ....i always know i have high metabolic rate but !!....its comparative to a 16 yr old boy......am i still in puberty??
Isn't there any formula to slow it down......no wonder i gets distracted easily and nvr seat still for a moment.....haiz......
Monday, December 1, 2008
Disturbance
Emotional roller-coaster again. I'm starting to suspect even guys have down period once every moment. I still remember how hard I tried to keep my emotions in check but things sometimes don't turn up well.
Now I could apprehend how desires could lead to frustrations and troubled mind. Results seems obvious but it is the natural fighting spirit of man to give a decent fight to what he wants. Or maybe a fight is not really what I want. After all, I do know the result from the fight would either be futile or foolish.
If it is not a fight, then what is it? To me inclination is more like a suitable word. Just like how a flower would lean naturally towards the sun rays. Its just like a familiar yet logically distant feeling. Or does this feeling arise from cyclic foolish self thoughts?
But strange enough after the usual logical thoughts, its just seem too real. Yet I clearly know the attractiveness is something not material and surface. Its is definitely more deeper. Maybe to me it is more like a journey. A journey that I know I will grow from . . .
Whatever the turn out maybe, its still something noble which I wish to pursue also.
Now I could apprehend how desires could lead to frustrations and troubled mind. Results seems obvious but it is the natural fighting spirit of man to give a decent fight to what he wants. Or maybe a fight is not really what I want. After all, I do know the result from the fight would either be futile or foolish.
If it is not a fight, then what is it? To me inclination is more like a suitable word. Just like how a flower would lean naturally towards the sun rays. Its just like a familiar yet logically distant feeling. Or does this feeling arise from cyclic foolish self thoughts?
But strange enough after the usual logical thoughts, its just seem too real. Yet I clearly know the attractiveness is something not material and surface. Its is definitely more deeper. Maybe to me it is more like a journey. A journey that I know I will grow from . . .
Whatever the turn out maybe, its still something noble which I wish to pursue also.
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