Art to communication is to open your mouth using the correct word, to the correct person, at the correct time and correct situation. Swing to the extremes don't work! Too responsive and sensitivity will only breed long lasting quarrels and bitters. Too passive and suppressiveness leads to current peace and future magnified problems.
I am not the most suitable communicator but I prefer to listen before I say. That's why I have 2 prominent ears and one mouth. Bringing your point across is not about who's the winner but try to deal with the problem. But definitely not on problems that have past and problems that have yet to come.
Quarrels can be good. Its time to readjust mutual differences and expectation but do it when the situation requires as any strongholds can not withstand constant shocks. Relationship consist of both partners working hard for common goals. The strength for each other and the pillars for each other.
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