Lessons learnt

Feeling shiok as i have learnt something new today.

In every moments, there is something unique happening. And the reason that something happens may not have a very direct and simple reasons. . .

I am someone that believes in what I see and sad to say I do jump to conclusion at times. Earlier this month, I had a rather "not so comfortable experience" of having the act of isolating some one. Although the matter has passed, but the feeling still lingers.

I had some unpleasant experience during my childhood days. I am not a born athletics and thus during PE lessons, I do have experience of being the last one selected in team sports. Although I have grown up and thinking matures. Still, I hate the idea of isolating anyone. I feel that every person should have the chance to socialise and be the center of attractions.

This might be the reason that I had drawn my conclusion recently that there is some ostracizing activity going on in our group. Negative thoughts just surpassed my logical brain. "Why is this happening? Are they really that mean? Isn't there any better options?" Trains of negative thought jus storm my grey matter.

All thanks to a friend that called me to clarified the matter! What a fool I am! I have took the matter by face value.

This is a great lessons that I have learned. Never jump into conclusion. And if something disturbing happens, always ask.